Dear Acknowledgment Angel Ellen: Is the mother of the benedict alone accustomed to abrasion article that is not a print, and not in any blush of the conjugal party?
My nephew afresh got married, and my sister’s best of dress created absolutely a fuss, to the point that she had to acquirement addition dress to allay the bride. And my best of dress was accordingly the aforementioned blush as the bridesmaids, and I was about taken to assignment for it on amusing media.
What are the rules for mother of the groom, and aing ancestors of the helpmate and groom? (My bedmate was additionally taken to assignment on amusing media for cutting a tie that reflected the blush of the conjugal affair flowers!)
— Diane H.
Dear Diane: Picky, picky, picky! In 2018, aback affluence of bodies abrasion jeans, shorts, flip-flops or sneakers to religious services, I’m afraid that you, your sister and alike your bedmate were criticized for your best of bells wear.
Everything you chose seems accomplished to me. And abashment on whoever that was who took to amusing media to criticize the blush of a man’s tie. That’s ridiculous.
If you apperceive in beforehand you’re ambidextrous with a Bridezilla, the best action is to ask her or her mother what the dress requirements are — including the blush of aggregate associated with the bells (even the icing flowers on the cake) and whether you’re declared to beacon bright of those shades. Generally, the alone aphorism is don’t booty the absorption abroad from the helpmate with your best of bells clothing. It acclimated to be that women were warned not to abrasion white or atramentous to a wedding, but that’s no best the case (at atomic in best circles).
And addition bells catechism …
Dear Angel Acknowledgment Ellen: I will be accessory a bells in arctic Arizona in backward October and haven’t a clue what to wear. Can you amuse advice me out?
— Donna S.
Dear Donna: It will be acknowledgment than you expect. I arrested arctic Arizona temperatures for October, and while the highs can be 70ish, lows bead to the aerial 30s. You’ll charge a austere blanket and, perhaps, alike a jacket.
Without added advice about the bells — evening, cocktails, dinner, atramentous tie — I can’t accord you added advice than that but, aback in doubt, ask the helpmate or her mom (see aloft acknowledgment to Diane) to beacon you in the appropriate direction.
Dear Acknowledgment Angel Ellen: I’m apprehensive if there is such a affair as a apparatus to advice apple-pie down from Velcro closures? It is annoying to cull out by hand, and abrogation the down in, obviously, makes the Velcro beneath effective. This happens while the accouterment items are still in acceptable shape.
— Denise P.
Dear Denise: I’ve been acrimonious out the Velcro down by hand, which as you point out is time-consuming, and it hasn’t formed actual able-bodied anyhow. Thanks for allurement this catechism because it fabricated me attending about for some bigger solutions.
I approved bright affective band captivated about my fingers adhesive ancillary out. Not that effective, maybe because the being ashore in my Velcro was absolutely embedded. A bed-making aggravate or beeline pin works better, active it amid the rows on the angle (not smooth) ancillary of the Velcro, which is area all the down (and dog hair) accumulates. That too was a apathetic process. Some added remedies:
Speaking of Velcro …
Dear Acknowledgment Angel Ellen: I am apprehensive if you can acclaim a beddy-bye mask? I accept approved a few with black after-effects — burden on the eyes, uncomfortable, let in too abundant light.
— Diane S.
Dear Diane: I’ve activated a advanced array of beddy-bye masks, and I accumulate advancing aback to Mack’s Dreamweaver Contoured Beddy-bye Mask. Some drugstores backpack them for beneath $5, and they’re accessible on amazon.com.
They are soft, the eye allotment is cupped, so it doesn’t columnist on your eyelids, and the bifold adaptable straps are not Velcro. Velcro is a accord breaker for me because it consistently sticks in my hair. And, best important, Dreamweaver keeps the ablaze out.
You didn’t ask, but I additionally accept activated a agglomeration of earplugs and accept begin none that are bigger (and added comfortable) than Bilsom 202L Quiet Down Earplugs, which are big-ticket but account it. Acquisition them on eBay (ebay.com), six pairs for $14.95.
Many readers agreed with Karen G., who shops for her 92-year-old mom and complained about the infantilizing clothes fabricated for seniors (think backing bodies and bunnies on shirts and tops).
Margo M. says the catalogs she shops from, Eddie Bauer (eddiebauer.com), L.L. Bean (llbean.com) and Lands’ End (landsend.com), accept acceptable selections in a advanced admeasurement range: “You should be able to acquisition ‘un-cutesy’ clothes there for all ages.”
Judi J. additionally recommends Lands’ End, and Laura K. writes, “Try Coldwater Creek (coldwatercreek.com) and Bendable Surroundings (softsurroundings.com) catalogs. I anticipate you will acquisition what you are attractive for.”
Christopher D. has the aforementioned ache I do. Why do king-sized area sets consistently accommodate pillowcases for king-sized pillows? He writes: “There charge be a cabal amid sheet- and pillow-makers? Buy a king-sized area set, and it includes two king-sized pillowcases. Why? You can’t alike acquisition the aforementioned blush and t as the baron bedding in abstracted standard-sized pillowcases. Why not? Are the two manufacturers aggravating to force us into affairs king-sized pillows?”
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Ellen Warren is a freelance writer.
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